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with less :: hosting for the holidays

11/8/2017

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ball jars/cups
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low-profile plates
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table cloth/napkins
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weck jars/bowls
The holidays are on the horizon + before the mood turns toward shopping, let's consider improvising. Entertaining is a tricky topic, because it looks different for all of us. For some of us entertaining is sporadic, and borrowing or just making do is practical. For others of us it is a regular practice, so having a little arsenal of items on hand may be a better option. (We'll try to keep the emphasis on little... + do as much double duty thinking as possible.) I'll do my best to offer some ideas to spark some further individual thought.  :)

If we are entertaining in a smaller space, numbers matter...especially as the temperature dip making outdoor spaces uninhabitable. Consider saving larger scale get-togethers for warmer weather, when they can be held potluck style at a park. Each family can bring their own table service, lawn chairs, and a dish + dessert to pass. At a certain point in my extended family's growth, we started gathering in a park on Labor Day for my grandma's birthday rather than at one family's home for Christmas. This had the added benefits of taking the focus off gifts (except for Grandma) + taking some stress off of the holiday season. Another option might be to get together with far away friends/family at a third location + camp or rent an Airbnb together...whether at the holidays or at another time of year. 

Ok, so now we may be thinking about less people as well as less extra entertaining "stuff". This "stuff" mostly pertains to eating...and if there are overnight guests, also to sleeping + grooming.

When it comes to food, consider ::
-borrowing :: any extra plates, silverware, or serving ware needed :: alternatively keep 12 (or appropriate number) salad sized plates + make do (no paper plates)
-using jars as 
drink ware :: Bonne Mama or Mason jars work well for us + we always have plenty on hand (no plastic cups)
-serving what is easy to serve :: if we don't want to keep 12 mugs, maybe serve apple cider instead of coffee :: if we don't want to keep 12 bowls, maybe don't serve soup...or serve it in wide-mouthed Weck or Ball jars that can serve other purposes in daily life :: if we don't want to keep a roasting pan just to use it once a year, maybe make shepherd's pie or lasagna the new tradition
-potluck :: not only does this decrease prep work, but the amount of dishes + platters needed :: decreases costs + allows everyone to contribute + participate
-using the counter or dining table as a buffet :: (no extra long table or extra dining chairs necessary)
-doing a dessert buffet, hors d'ouerves, cheese board, or some combination to decrease whole meal expectations + preparation
-thrifting a table cloth + ripping it into a bunch of reusable napkins :: pull the loose strands + leave the fringed edges (or sew the edges, if you like) (no paper napkins)
-stackable stools, if extra seating is necessary :: they can be used as bedside or coffee tables in daily life (or can be packed away compactly) (folding chairs can be compact too)
-bringing an outdoor table in for extra seating + covering both tables with table cloths for a more uniform look
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japanese folding mattress
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folding bed frame
Overnight guests often require some additional stuff. Providing an extra space to sleep along with a bit of privacy can get tricky. Some of us have extra blankets + bedding, but this may not be the case when we are really trying to live light. After each of our moves overseas, we didn't have extra bedding or towels for guests. We were able to borrow a mattress + bedding when we lived in London. Back in the States, we have used our camping air mattress for guests. Since we are all in need of bedding + towels at the same time, it can be tricky to improvise. (We've done that too, but I won't expand upon it.)  :)

Simplifying + improvising may be more about space than stuff in this area. Many of us don't have the desire to heat, cool, clean, maintain, + pay for the extra square footage of a guest bedroom...but it may make sense to dedicate a portion of a closet to a thoughtfully curated collection of guest "stuff" (if we have frequent overnight guests). A few options + alternatives can be found below.

When it comes to bedding, consider ::
-letting camping equipment double as guest bedding...a tent set up on carpet could even offer a little extra privacy or be fun for kids
-borrowing/sharing with family or friends (although this could get complicated around the holidays)
-letting the guest bring their own air mattress + bedding 
-air mattress (es) :: they pack away compactly
-japanese mattress or folding cushions (can be stored in a closet)
-futon/fold-out couch 
-fold up bed frame (above) for those who need a raised bed or for college kids who come home more often
-a folding screen or tension rod + curtain to put up in a doorway without a door :: for privacy
-throw sized pillows :: take up less space + could be used in daily life
​-turkish towels :: take up less space + could be used as a beach towel or throw in daily life

I truly believe that a simple home can offer a lovely, relaxed invitation to come be a part of our uncluttered, relaxed, calm lives. Entertaining, after all, is about enjoying the company of those we love + sharing our most precious gifts of time + presence. Whether we are offering tea + a store bought cookie or a holiday meal, simplicity is beautiful.

Do you have any tips for entertaining with less? Please share!!  :)

Love,
Jane
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Priscilla link
11/8/2017 07:48:00 am

These are great ideas and thoughts, Jane. Starting in 2009, we learned that we don't need matching everything to have pretty place settings (so borrowing some plates is okay, and some can drink out of jars while others drink out of glasses). We also learned that we can seat 8 at the bar, with folks able to chat and eat; thus we have no need for a large, formal dining table and extra chairs.

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Jane link
11/8/2017 01:01:15 pm

Yes! I love all of that! Thank you for sharing that it has been working for you for 8 years too!

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Kari
11/8/2017 12:41:42 pm

Oh, my, what a star you are! Thank you for all this. You are so creative with your ideas. My brain just doesn't work that way. I will definitely be using some of these ideas this Christmas.

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Jane link
11/8/2017 01:06:44 pm

Yay! I almost emailed you to ask if there was anything in particular I could focus on...so please let me know if there is anything else that didn't cross my mind. Not that I would be able to solve anything...but often one idea will spark another (yours!). Hope you have a great holiday season with friends + family! :)

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Kari
11/8/2017 12:50:02 pm

Also, do you have the link for the plates? The link provided goes to the tablecloth.

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Jane link
11/8/2017 12:58:55 pm

Eek! Thanks so much for letting me know about the link! These are the plates that we have + use daily. I love them. They are durable + just the right size for all of our meals. I like the rims for keeping things like spaghetti sauce corralled + for scooping food against. They also work great as lids for our bowls, because the rims keep them from sliding off quite so easily.

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Celia link
11/8/2017 05:06:55 pm

Smart + thoughtful + lovely, as always. Thanks Jane.

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Jane link
11/9/2017 01:39:22 pm

Thank you!! :)

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